A friend had presented me a book when I was admitted in the hospital, written by one of the greatest scientists and thinkers of our times, Stephen Hawking. The book was titled โA Brief History of Time.โ
Something that Stephen Hawking said, inspired me a lot. โHowever difficult life may seem there is always something you can do and succeed at.โ
One thing I have learnt in my life, โI๊ฐ สแดแด แดกแดษดแด แดแด สแด sแดแดแดแดss๊ฐแดส, สแดแด แด แดษด’แด สแดแด แด แดแด แดสแดสสแดษดษขแด แดแดสแดสs, สแดแด สแดแด แด แดแด แดสแดสสแดษดษขแด สแดแดสsแดส๊ฐ. Tสแดษด, สแดแดสษด แดแด ษขแด สแดสแดษดแด แดสส แดสแดsแด แดสแดสสแดษดษขแดs แดสแดแดแดษชษดษข แดสแดแด แดs sแดส๊ฐ ษชแดแดแดsแดแด สษชแดษชแดแดแดษชแดษดs แดษดแด ษดแดแด แดแดแดแด แด สษชษข ๊ฐแดss แดแดแด แด๊ฐ แดสแดแด.โ
Traits of the Victim
Blaming Others
Blaming job
Blaming boss
Blaming organisation
Blaming your work
Blaming society
Blaming country
Blaming Family
Blaming parents
Blaming current life
Victim blames all except himself/herself.
Victim focuses on obstacles but victor focusses on opportunity
Victim sees problems everywhere ,victor try to make best of the situation
Victim focusses on risks in life victor focusses on life as an exciting adventure.
I am not talking positive thinking here, but this is how the perspective of victims how they see the world
Victim is always fearful and keep thinking what could go wrong always, where as victor takes responsibility for his/her life
Victor has trust , self confidence in his/her abilities and Victim depends on luck
Victim always blames for ill luck, victor believes in luck favours one who takes action but not depend on it
Victim is not committed to change the life, victor is unstoppable will not give up come what may
More details are in my chapter 3 of my Book โ๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ b๐ฒ ๐จ๐ป๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒโ
๐๐ค๐ฌ ๐๐ฉ ๐๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ข ๐ค๐ง ๐ซ๐๐๐ฉ๐ค๐ง ๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ก๐๐e